Ljuvy (21), Växjö, escort tjej

Shalom

He lives far away from me (and his gf lives away from him too), so I'm going to go visit him in a couple of weeks, however he hasn't told his girlfriend anything. He's mentioned wanting to break things off with his gf to be with me, but I told him that put way too much pressure on me because I don't know him well enough to make a commitment to a relationship together. However, we've agreed that after the visit, decisions will be made (which may include me saying "F off.")

Mercator

true i have noticed.

Levitator

for replying. I'm just still a little in shock over this and at first I thought "maybe I was overreacting, maybe it really isn't any worse than a stash of porn mags" Maybe it's just some immaturity thing. But you're right. At first I didn't think he'd ever even actually meet anyone until I set up the fake profile and he eagerly wants to meet this "other woman". He hasn't actually done it yet, but who knows if hasn't met someone else since we've been together. He was married for 10 years and claims that he and his ex were basically nothing but roommates for the last 3 years and swore that even there was no intimacy between, he'd never cheated, etc. I'm starting to think that he just hadn't been caught. He is very careful... In 2 years, I'd never known that he had this other yahoo account or that he'd visited any of these sites, he never seemed to be anywhere he shouldn't be, his phone is on my plan so I can see who he calls. Of course I never thought I had any reason to check up on anything.

Catbrier

Honestly, you need to experience this first hand to understand it.

Meridion

Based on what you wrote, it seems as though you both know that this isn't going to work out in the long term because of the religion issue. That's probably why this guy doesn't want to spend his money on you.

Negation

Iam a simple man, looking for friendship, and than maybe long term relationship, love to fine some one to go on dates, sitting alone in the movies or dinning by myself, its not what i had plan, but.

Snafued

Just tell him you're not interested and or that you started seeing someone else, drop those subtle hints.