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Cascalho

You should've gone with him, if anything.

Intwined

I get the feeling he wants to get you (or whatever target woman) into bed fast.

Kneeler

Right. Just don't even give her the time of day. It doesn't sound like she really wants you at all like that. If she did, she would let you know and wouldn't act confusing and ****ty. I wouldn't even call her ass again.

Junita

i think she needs some shark repelant XD

Bishops

cute and sexy, thank god no stupid expression or the v sign

Tub

Resolution removes panic. You're sounding a bit panicky, to be honest.

Ritchey

nice look ,jeans are nice :)

Bahai

As a girl who has done the same exact thing she has done, don't freak out. You have to prepare yourself that this may not work out. And if it does, then you will be greatly surprised. It seems to me that you are doing all the right things, but that could be the problem. Sometimes guys try to be too nice. Girls like a little mystery. Girls like the bad boy. Do not tell her you really like her and want to spend more time with her. Just do it. Girls use words, guys use actions. Be the cool guy who goes out with his guy friends instead of her. Live YOUR life. She may see this as attractive and come running back. Without being a total jerk, make it seem like it is a special thing to be able to spend time with you. She will see you as more of a commodity. You need to back off and live your life and pretend to care less about her, when in reality you seem to really like her. Play things cool. Girls love cool. They love the guy who suddenly has a free moment and wants to walk to the beach, or grab a quit lunch at a cafe. Get rid of all the serious dinner dates and going to the movies. Do something low key and spontaneous. Being a gentleman is very attractive, but being a push over is not. What my ex used to do that I loved was when I would have a bunch of friends over, I would include him. He would almost be my go to co-host. He would make drinks in the kitchen and I would clean and entertain my friends. Then sometimes just to surprise me he would call me in the kitchen. When I would go in he would be all cute and grab me a little and ask for a kiss and then he would just go for it. It was not only exciting to feel wanted, but to think your friends are in the next room. You don't have to be a wild child, I am not. But adding a little suspense to your relationship with her will add interest. Keep her hanging on the edge. Have minimal time on your date to spend with her. Talk about your future but don't talk about her in it. That used to get me every time with my ex. I loved his future goals and dreams, but I wanted to be in them. So I would then try to be around him more and would try to please him to be in that future. I hope things work out. If they don't, do not worry. I have felt like that girl before. There is nothing wrong with you and that is the problem. You are perfectly adequate but she isn't feeling butterflies and fireworks with you. You could just be better as friends. If you do end up having a talk about being together, play it cool. Act like you hadn't really thought about it and that its no big deal. This will make you seem less involved and she will probably want to be more involved. Good Luck!

Jany

I would break up with him as well.

Pelorian

now however my feelings have changed towards him dramatically. i am head over heels for this guy! when i mentioned about the possibility of us together again, he said he didn't want to date me. i asked him why and he never really told me at first but he finally did. he said that when i 'rejected' him, i told him he 'never had the chance with me' (i do NOT remember saying those words but ok). and that the only reason he doesn't like me anymore is because he gave up on me. understandable.

Swellings

Hello everyone, I have a GF who is from a foreign country. She is currently living with me and we are "testing the waters" to see if marriage is where things are headed. One very small issue has come up and I want to know if I should be upset. She likes to log into a bulletin board that is dedicated to women from her country who have married Americans. She told me she reads it to learn things like recipes, about our banking system, cleaning products, etc. However, several times I have sat with her and asked her she was reading and 99% of the messages she reads is about how terrible deciding to marry and American was. Every message is about how this husband is a drug addict and this husband is a wife beater and this husband is an alcoholic and this husband didn't pay taxes for 20 years. I mentioned to her that it made me very uncomfortable that she spent so much time reading all of these horror stories. In my mind it puts too many doubts in her head since the site only seems to focus on these horror stories. She said that she knows I am not like any of these guys and she just enjoys reading the site. The day after I mentioned it made me feel uncomfortable she was back reading the site again. This time I confronted her and told her I really did not like her reading all of these terrible stories about marriages to Americans. I asked her "if you know it makes me feel uncomfortable

Asa

It turns out that during that time, he contacted an ex and that she visited him at least twice. He has denied the fact that she visited him at his house even though I know that for a fact. It was upsetting to learn that, but I dumped him during that time so he was free to do whatever, I guess. What was really upsetting to me was finding out out that one weekend in September (ie*prior* to our break) when I was out of town visiting my family, he had been calling this ex and even insulted her (via text) for not picking up. I have not confronted him about this specifically.

European

Love the legs (y)

Routing

You are only justifying his behavior.

Siccan

1. He's full of sh*t.

Krishna

Nice underboob!

Deluca

How about reading some of the threads here from the guys who can't find anybody who likes them period who are pushing to or over age 30?

Ted

His behavior is creepy. I mean, who off the bat...messages a girl, one that they have not seen in six years; and starts telling them how it'll be great if...they were together, etc. Then constantly text about kissing and dating. He is way into you. Way overboard. Way too creepy.

Mehtar

This "other guy" has been "in the picture" in some way or another, for a year and a half! I tried the no contact thing with him, but he always ends up back in my life. He tells me he'd rather be friends than nothing at all. I'm a total softy and the last thing I want to ever do is hurt someone. Especially someone who is nothing but nice to me! I can't find it in me to tell him to get lost! Is it because I have some feelings for him, or am I just a people-pleaser?

Stiffer

ginger! keep gingers!

Fastair

Mermaid

Lefebvre

By the way sorry if I overcomplicated sentences here-there, I am from europe, english is like a 3rd language here. Thanks in advance for any tips

Schmata

You are both young and inexperienced and chances are that in ten years time you will both have a couple more notches on that bedpost and a few scars on your heart where they've been ripped to shreds. Then you might look back and see how little silly things like this matter.

Efendim

i have a big heart and cant seem to find the right person. I love my family and want someone who dose the same. My kids are the love of my life.

Dotty

quite impressive posteriors

Rhinelander

Strong, powerful and young. A GREAT combo!

Luca

I think that if person is cheating on you, you can just feel it, you just know somehow.

Cava

Easy going person and jovial,carein.

Freit

looking for my special someon.

Fleeted

Wow, just ....Wow. He actually said that, huh? I guess if he is ok with this girlfriend sleeping around, then what you said probably didn't effect him. He sounds like he doesn't really take relationships seriously at all. Are you seriously interested in this guy? If I had heard the same thing from a woman I was dating, I would probably just walk away from this one. Sorry, hun. Some times you win, some times you lose, and some times you get ....just wow!

Porky

In reality, people are more like 70% sure they never wanna see you again, don't like being a 'bad guy', are selfish, and love having options and attention.

Glaik

Sexiest tan lines ever :)

Discern

i hope things start looking up for you, sounds like this girl is really hurting you.

Lall

There have been a few times where we've been together for a day and he has to leave to go meet some friends, and does not invite me along. Perhaps it's because he just wants to connect with them on his own. It's reasonable for him to have a separate life, but I do think it's important that I eventually met at least some of his friends.

Waterhead

The word amazing doesnt do her justice.

Microcosm

Is reasonability going to motivate her into improving her self-esteem? What would motivate her to reasonability at this late date? Better she should find a man that doesn't like porn.

Largeness

I am a Christian man and I am hoping to find a slim of face and figure (why do all the girls suddenly have such big, ungainly butts??) Christian lady to be my friend.

Reina

so my friend contacts me this weekend to tell me she is having a terrible time. so i say what's wrong, no response until the next day when i talk to her on the phone. it was "terrible" because the guy didn't want to go downtown with her, like she wanted to. so not to get into details but then she is saying how she is going to some other guy's house to spend the night - some other guy she used to hook up with - I asked if her boyfriend (let's call him "Mike") knows that, and she says oh no, he would die. And then she explains how she told him she is going to a mutual friend's place, and how she needs to call that mutual friend to tell her to lie for her.

Bullocker

Wow, and guess what, this was NOT an online encounter. I was out with some friends, and I met her (she was a friend ofa friend of a friend)

Tarts

lemondrop: Final warning for everything upload rule and FAQ related.

Totonac

Nope---I had 9 new approved and now I have 8When I went to bed it was like 40-1 voting

Senior

lol thanks fork :D but id hardly say im famous, im just a small time uploader and contributer

Traver

300 girls? So if I can guess, you sent messages to almost every girl in your area, without really seeing if those girls actually fit your criteria, or if you had anything in common with them at all. So basically, you just spammed 300 random girls? I'm not sure this is the best tactic. I know you said you're not looking for hate or ridicule, so I hope you take my post as I intend it, to help a little bit.